
Okay, I finally have time to reveal the answers to the polls... I know all of you have been waiting around all day for this moment to come, but Richard has been working on my V-day gift all day long! Anyway, down to the answers...
Question 1: Who said "I love you" first?
I'm pathetic, I know, but I really cannot keep my emotions and feelings inside at all! I, JEANNE-MARIE, said "I love you" first. But it wasn't my fault, though, Richard had to play his cards just right to make me go crazy! First of all, when we first dated in California, we knew it would be short-term and not serious because I was moving in a couple of months to Las Vegas. Well, a few days before I moved, he broke up with me (we had agreed on just dating until I moved and then it would be off) which of course drove me wild. Then when he broke up with me, he said, "I wish that I had had a real chance with you." Then a couple months down the road when we saw each other again, he tells me, "I have tried really hard to get over you, and I thought I was doing a good job. But, as soon as I saw you, I knew I wasn't. I'm not over you. I still want that chance." Okay, who's heart would not melt to that? So, after a month-and-a-half of talking on the phone multiple times a day and a in-person visit, he leaves a lull in the conversation just long enough for it to hit me - I love this guy! So, I just say it. And, what does he say in return? Nothing! He returned those three words to me a couple of days later after he flew to Vegas. He used the "in person" excuse for waiting a few days...
Question #2: Who never had a significant other on Valentine's Day until we were engaged?
Once again, that would be me, JEANNE-MARIE. It's really funny (now) because although I had four serious-ish boyfriends, I wasn't dating any of them on Valentine's Day. I started dating two of them during summer or Fall semester, and they broke up with me right before Christmas. The other two I started dating after Valentine's, and they both broke up with me on July 1st (Richard is included in this one). For Richard, he only had one serious girlfriend but dated her for ten months in which included Valentine's Day.
Question #3: Who has spent the most money on the other person for Valentine's Day gifts?
You would think that I spend the most money, but it goes to RICHARD hands down. Now there is a couple of reasons for this. I love to give gifts and plan for weeks in advance to have the perfect gift. I listen to what he says he wants and likes and plan from there. Well, Richard says he never knows what I will like so at the last moment, he goes to the store and buys a bunch of different things(for example, last year he gave me two watches, a statue, a skirt, and an exercise bike), hoping I will like something. I don't think I'm that hard to shop for, but he does. He also gets this hands down because of the help of my sister, Lora. The Valentine's Day before we got married, he asked my sister to help him get presents for me. She took him to a jewelry store and told him to buy me my wedding jewelry. A pearl necklace, ring and earrings later, he had set me up with beautiful jewelry for our wedding and cleared out his bank account!
So, there you go. If any of you got all three answers right, let me know so I can send you a Valentine's. Also, stay tuned for a follow-up post about the awesome gift Richard made me this year!